How To Learn From Life’s Greatest Lessons
WHAT ARE LIFE’S GREATEST LESSONS? — by Catherine Morgan
“When we begin to take our failures non-seriously, it means we are ceasing to be afraid of them. It is of immense importance to learn to laugh at ourselves” — Katherine Mansfield
What I think this quote is saying; is that the importance of failures in our lives, will only be revealed to us, once we stop looking at them as failures. What we learn from our so-called “failures”, are usually the greatest lessons in our lives, and we need to open our eyes so we can see that.
It may even be that life lessons learned through what we perceive as our failures, are greater lessons than what we learn from our successes. Most success comes from letting go of our fear of failure, and being willing to take some risks. People who are successful in their lives, are not people who have never failed…but people who have never given up. They are people who have learned from their mistakes, and pushed ahead past their fears, to get to their successes.
I think the greatest “life lesson” we can ever learn, is the lesson that we should never give up on our dreams. By reaching for our dreams and our goals in life, we are doing what we were meant to do. When we follow our dreams, we will inevitably make many mistakes along the way, but hopefully we also grow along the way. It is truly the path to your dream that is most important, not whether you actually get there or not. That is why the true “failure” is not when you don’t reach your dream, but it’s when you never even try to reach for it.
It’s through our deepest struggles, that we are often forced to reach for our highest dreams. I think that is because, when we are at our lowest, at what we perceive to be “rock-bottom”, there is no where else for us to go but up. It is at these times of complete hopelessness, that we consciously choose to either give-up, or to push past our pain and reach for our dreams.
We need to try and remember this, so when we are deep in our own despair over a perceived failure, we can recognize our pain, and see it as an opportunity to reach for our dreams.
Comments
Comment from catherinesblog
Time: September 22, 2007, 7:10 am
Thanks Liara,
I’ll have to check that book out, it sounds nice. Thanks so much for your comment.
Comment from Liara Covert
Time: September 22, 2007, 6:20 am
I love your choice of graphics. You may appreciate some of Doreen Virtue’s books such as Fairies 101: An Introduction to Connecting, Working, and Healing with the Fairies and Other Elementals.
Dreambuilding is a process I fervently believe in. To become more effective at this, its also useful to explore the meaning behind our chosen perception. We benefit most from taking steps toward dreams than enable us to gain a deeper sense of self.